Avoiding Those Family Vacation Meltdowns
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So you’ve waited all year for this very moment. The moment when you know your family vacation right around the corner. The suitcases are almost packed, the kids are more excited than they’ve ever been in their life. You’re ready to finish your last day at work, and you can’t help but feel the excitement, even if you know that stress is going to come with it.
It’s awesome to look forward to your long-awaited trip, but when it is a family vacation there is only so much excitement you can fit in before you start to think about how you’re going to have to look after the kids, keep them entertained, and possibly deal with their daily meltdowns. Then there’s the fact that you have to do all of this in a state or country that is most likely going to have different weather then your own.
So from someone who’s traveled a lot with kids both young & older kids, these are some great tips you can use to reduce those family vacation meltdowns. Then you can actually feel as though you’re having a peaceful family bonding trip! So keep on reading, and see what you think!
Pack The Right Essentials
Packing is the most frustrating part of going on a family vacation. It’s not as though you only have your own clothes and essentials to worry about, you have to think about every single thing that your kids are going to need too. So I’ve compiled in one place some of my favorite must-have essentials to take when traveling with young children, to help you decide what items to include on your packing list.
Another must-have item that seems to get left out, simply because sometimes it’s hard to imagine the difference in the environment, is bug spray. Just because you might not get but bites, it doesn’t mean that your children will be able to avoid those pesky critters too. It’s often hard for children to understand why they’ve got a super big, itchy red bump that’s driving them mad and causing unnecessary discomfort. Which of course then leads to even more of a meltdown when you have nothing to put on it. So something I have to have on hand is stingose spray or their gel version. It is definitely something you should be packing, even as just a precaution!
You should also think about packing some games, toys, and activities. Especially since you don’t want your kids to spend the whole time on electronics, but you need to be able to keep them entertained, and this is the perfect option.
Keep Daily Activities High
It’s all well and good wanting a chilled out relaxing family vacation, but with kids, this is not always the way the cookie is going to crumble. Your kids are not going to just sit next to you and soak up the sun. Just playing in the pool isn’t always going to be enough after a day or two. So book a few fun, kid-friendly excursions that you can go on. Perhaps to a water park, or a water sports day. It just gets their adrenaline and excitement pumping, and it definitely will get them tired so they will sleep better at night.
Go With Their Flow
Half of the time, children are having meltdowns because they’re going with your flow, and often it’s not what they want to do. So as much as possible, let them guide what the holiday should be like. Most of the time they’ll want to play in the pool or go to the kid’s club, and it’s so easy to facilitate that when on vacation!

25 Comments
Luna S
Packing the right essentials is a great idea for helping avoid bad situations on vacation!
Sanjota Purohit
Very useful guide while travelling with kids. Thanks for this.
Hailey Almsted
Such a great post! Thanks for sharing 🙂
Shoppers Gossip
Great tips. We will be going for family summer vacation in Goa next week. Great timing…Thanks for the share.
lexieanimetravel
Great read! It must be quite hard to avoid meltdowns while on vacation, but you did explained some tips to help other parents. Good job!
Bindu Thomas
Totally agree with you. Great tips. Thanks for sharing.
constance k
Great tips, but when traveling with kids meltdown are always one corner away
haroon ejaz
These are very important tips when planning or going on family vacation. Great Job!
Elizabeth O
Yes you’re all right. Sometimes we tend to go on our own rules and overlooked what they want. This is a great advise for us parents.
Quin CL
I couldn’t agree more! Go with their flow indeed, or else they would have tantrums. I am not a parent yet, but I know it from experience (as a kid) lol
Goldfish and Gin
You’ve got some great tips here! I’ve got 5 kiddos and travel quite a bit with them. I’ve found that going at their pace and just being willing to go with the flow really helps to cut down on the meltdowns
BeaufyFoodymom
These are great tips will keep in mind
Neil Alvin Nicerio
In my family, there is only one rule… Never get my wife hungry. It ruins everything.
JENRON DESIGNS
Great tips because you know there will always be at least one meltdown lol!
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Joanna
There is nothing worse than having your holiday ruined because you didn’t prepared properly for every scenario. Packing essentials and a medical kit are so important.
Kelly
It is always great to be prepared for any situation to arise.
Cristiane
Kids get bored pretty easy so planning fun activities is a must. That’s what I do when my step kids come spend summer with us. Sometimes is hard there is nothing better than a peaceful vacation right?
Streamed TV Fan
As a mother of two, I relate to most of this. However, I must say that I don’t agree with “Going with their flow.” In my opinion, it is a family holiday and everyone’s choice is equally valid. And children should learn that it’s not always what they want that should happen. Sometimes we should do things that other people enjoy too.
Catherine
Great Post! I love the reminder about going with the flow! Our plans don’t always go as expected, especially on vacation. Learning to go with the flow can make for a more enjoyable vacation for everyone!
Crystal Gempko
Oh lord, I remember being the cause of those family vacation meltdowns hahaha, great post!
Everything On A Plate
Oh gosh those dreaded meltdowns! Keeping these pointers in mind
Viano Dee
This is a nice post. Many times as you rightly said, kids want you to go with their flow. Very important point to note otherwise the vacation will be ruined. That means if you want to something different, you’ll have to go on a vacantion without them.
travelandhikewithpcos
This are useful and important tips when planning or going on family vacation. For packing things, some times I feel like packing the whole house in my bags – bug spray, sun screen, ointments, kids medicines/syrup and many more. Going with their flow matters alot. Thanks for sharing.
Heena
Shnooks
Thank you so much for sharing these amazing tips,they will surely spice up the vacation so that the kids won’t get bored 😍